"Life becomes far easier once you know that things will still work out even if you are lacking something." - Marie Kondo
As you may have noticed by now, I love putting overly hyped products to the test. So this time I decided to give it a little twist and put a book that has been flooding my Instagram and Bloglovin feeds for a while: The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing by Marie Kondo.
The entire book focuses on the KonMari Method (KonMari = a mix of the author's name), which is a basically a technique on how to keep your personal space in order for good by having less stuff and surrounding yourself only by the things that spark joy to your life. Beautiful, isn't it?
Until now I was what Marie describes as a "rebound" organizer. I would tidy my things up in my bedroom and two weeks later, it was all the way it was before: A huge pile of clothes, bags and shoes. So reading this book was the best way for me to actually realize what was wrong with my organizing methods and I invested a whole weekend in the biggest bedroom purge I have ever done in my life that resulted in a very happy donation store. This is why I decided I wanted to write down 15 things I learned from this book and maybe several reasons to go ahead and try the KonMari Method:
1. There is a sequence to tidying your home the best way possible
Clothes, Books, Papers, Miscellaneous and lastly, Mementos. You're welcome, I saved you the Google search.
2. Tidying my space is much more spiritual than I ever thought.
I feel like I created my own little sanctuary where I can feel as relaxed as possible after a long hard day of work.
3. When your room is free from clutter you have no other choice than to confront your feelings.
4. Before you start storing stuff, you need to decide what you want to keep and what to discard.
Otherwise, it will destroy the KonMari Method. Discard everything you don't want all at once and then, just then, you can start organizing all the things that spark joy in your life.
5. The best way to not rebound = Tidy by category, not by place.
6. Tidying is a way of showing gratitude, so think about things as people
Yes, you read that right. Even though not everyone we meet is meant to stay in our lives, they did have a purpose to be in it. With things, it's basically the same, which is why we need to show our appreciation for everything we are discarding.
7. Don't keep old clothes as your official Netflix & Chill clothes.
Your "me time" should be your time to appreciate yourself, so show a little respect and put on some fancy clothes ok? Throw away ALL the clothes that don't spark joy.
8. Folding clothes can actually be fun and kind of therapeutical
9. There are more ways to organize your closet than just color coordinating your clothes
The KonMari method teaches that the best way to keep all the clothes that "Spark joy" in your life is to hang them rising to the right. Your eyes will be happier, try it.
10. Keep only the books that make you happy when you see or touch them.
11. Letting go of mementos is the hardest part of the KonMari Method
I had about 5 boxes full of memories since high school, which I honestly didn't want to let go. I kept only the ones that made me smile and threw away the ones that didn't make me feel anything. Trust your intuition in this one.
12. Storing systems are for hoarders
The only storage solution you need is to find a spot for every single category of the things you own. Your storage should always let you know how much you have of something by just a glance.
13. Clutter is the cause of laziness
Well, duh! But seriously though, this method will teach you how to make the only storage you have as effortless as possible.
14. Empty your handbag every day
You have no idea of how skeptical I was about this. But after a week practicing this method, I can honestly say it doesn't bother me. I have a designated place for all the things that go inside my bag so every night I can put my things away and every morning I know exactly what needs to be taken for the day ahead. I'll let you know if it actually keeps working.
15. We should treat all the material things that we use in our daily life with respectin order to get the best use out of it
Specially because these things spark joy in our lives. In Marie's own words: "Caring for your possessions is the best way to motivate them to support you, their owner".
Please be aware that this is not a summary of the book. It is a review of all the lessons I learned while reading it and practicing the KonMari Method. I strongly encourage you to read it so you can discover what is the best way to un-clutter your life. I have a feeling you will like it just as much. :)
Let me know if you would like an update of my lifestyle after the method.
Until next time,